Morning Thanks

Garrison Keillor once said we'd all be better off if we all started the day by giving thanks for just one thing. I'll try.

Sunday, October 29, 2017

Sunday Morning Meds--How we respond



Sing to the LORD with thanksgiving; 
make music to our God on the harp.” Psalm 147:7

“She talks only to some of the kids in the class,” one of my students once told me, criticizing another prof.  “There’s like five people she calls on—that’s it.”

I’ve got sympathy for that prof.  Basically, each day in class I teach to eyes—some eyes, the eyes that seem bottomless as you’re going on and on about Thoreau or whoever, eyes that seek knowledge, eyes that listen, that care.

Some eyes are glazed. Some glance up at the clock or don’t come up from the book in front of them; some are vacant, dreamy, watching something a galaxy away. A protective teacher voice in me tells me not to look at those eyes. It’s less spite than a simple defense because vacant eyes appear to say they really don’t care. 

At a big lecture this week, a whole crowd of students got restless. Some whispered, but mostly they just fidgeted, audibly. It was annoying and even embarrassing. I was in an Elijah mood, ready to call in the bears.   

But then my ethnic heritage is unforgivably Northern European. I grew up in Lake Woebegone, where fathers show their love by telling their kids to weed the garden and long-lost brothers shake hands to avoid the discomfort of having to touch someone else.  That my classroom might be full of reticence is somehow understandable. 

An old friend, a musician, once told me he always felt edgy about doing concerts at the college where I teach—all those white kids from the cold reaches of the Upper Midwest, kids who simply don’t know how to respond emotionally. At the most inopportune time, he said, they’ll clap, because applause is the only legitimate emotional response they know.  On the other hand, playing for Pentecostals, he said, is a treat because they know how to give back, with their eyes, their hearts, their voices and whispers. When they’re thrilled, they give you their prayers.

But then I hail from the ice box myself. Years ago, I didn’t give a prof my eyes, mostly because I hadn’t read the material. If I looked down, I figured he or she would look right past me. I was never a leader in class. Mostly, I judged those who were as kiss-ups. I’m need forgiveness.

The heart of David’s command in verse seven is a call to sing, to give the Lord, our liberator, your eyes, your attention, your thanksgiving, your blessed praise, simply to respond. Some people do it as if by nature, but then there are others, others who haven’t read their assignments.

And there are some who simply don’t find it easy. I remember the time, my wife, an only child, faced the arduous task of coaxing her mother into comprehensive care. Her mother doesn’t want to leave her apartment in the Home, to leave her husband of nearly 60 years.  She’d rather die. Who can blame her?

Neither my wife nor her mother or father felt like singing just then. Their eyes were down. Their song was lament, not praise. None of them, nor me, felt like leading the class.
           
We rest in the promise that God almighty is bigger than the teacher in me. That’s our comfort. We want to believe—and we do—that He knows, that he watches those whose eyes are a world away, that He touches the untouchables.  He loves even those who don’t give him their eyes, who can’t. He’s the master teacher.

Early winter’s dreary gray is especially oppressive this morning, but I rest in his care.  That’s enough to make me break into applause, inappropriately.  

So I’m not. This is my song.

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