Oddly enough, his older sister came to America first, several years before her father and brother. She and her husband homesteaded in DeKalb County, Illinois. Her father, Franklin Romey, a cabinet maker back in Dantzig, Prussia, and his 11-year old son, Albert, showed up to visit their daughter and sister, and ended up staying six years, at which time Franklin decided he preferred the old country and moved back across the sea.
Son Albert stayed, took a job as a medical doctor's assistant somewhere in his sister's neighborhood. Most German-American immigrants of the era were familiar with war, too familiar in many cases, and therefore anxious to leave the battle-worn homeland behind. Suddenly, war was here too.
Then came the Civil War. Her brother Albert could likely have stayed out of the Union Army ranks, but when President Lincoln let it be known that the Union needed to put together an army, the young German-American joined to go to war. An old history of O'Brien County says "he was seized with the same patriotic zeal which caused the millions of native-born sons to flock to the standard of their country." He'd been here for just a few years.
In the spring of 1861, just after Lincoln's first call up, Albert Romey joined with the Company F, Third Regiment, Iowa Volunteer Infantry. He was just a kid.
The time he spent as a Union soldier seems to run on forever. The farther away we get from the horrors of the Civil War, the more its fatality count seems a preposterous horror. Estimates rise as high as 750,000 Americans, so many that it becomes difficult to believe that a kid like Albert Romey could fight his way through an entire war and come out alive: he was at Shiloh, the siege of Vicksburg, and part of Sherman's March to the Sea. Tucked beneath those big and famous battles were at least a half dozen fights that few remember at all. He followed the Red River Campaign to Yellow Bayou, a series of encounters that, strangely enough, ended by way of a grass fire so huge both sides put down their weaponry.
Somehow, Albert Romey, from Dantzig, Prussia, and, more recently, Sibley, Iowa, made it through all the strife, stem to stern, although wounded twice, one the gash of a sword laid to his back.
Chances are the Union's front lines were made up of hundreds, if not thousands of other immigrants, not many of whom came back home (Albert's tour of duty ran for more than four years, most of that time without the tent he lost early on, at Shiloh). But we've forgotten him and so many like him.
After the war, Alfred Romey took his new bride, Lucy Carpenter, out to Nebraska, following the stream of so many thousands of others on the trail west. But the two of them stayed for only a year, fearing the bloody depredations of angry, displaced Sioux. When the Romeys returned to Iowa, the two of them took land in the northwest corner of the state but moved to town rather quickly to start a business in Sibley. where he ran a quiet little business, a grocery store, for 33 years. Try to imagine a man with that history dressed in the standard clerk's apron tallying your butter, milk, and eggs.
My guess is he rarely showed his customers the slash across his back.
The Bible says, " “Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.”
And their lives aren't bad either.






